SLA Leah Hunter, MAMFT Brain Library · Worksheet
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Social Event Game Plan

Going in with a plan.

Events take energy, even the fun ones. Planning the before, during and after ahead of time means fewer decisions in the moment, and a softer landing when you get home.

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The worksheet, as designed. The same content is written out below.

Social Event Game Plan, page 1 of the handout as designed
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Phase 1 · Before

The event

What
Where
Who
What might be hardSensory, social, unknowns

What I’ll bring Tick all that apply

  • Headphones
  • Snack
  • Fidget
  • Water
  • Phone charged
  • Cash for a ride
  • Other:
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Phase 2 · During

My energy budget

Shade how full you are going in
012345
I’ll leave when it hits
My safe personAnd our signal for “I need a break”
My quiet spotA bathroom, a porch, the car, a walk
My exit line“I’m going to head out — this was really nice.”
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Phase 3 · After

Recovery planQuiet time, comfort food, a cozy show…
What went wellSmall wins count
What I’d changeFor next time, not as a grade
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Notes after the event

Anything you noticed, felt, or want to remember

Notes after the event
05

Reflect

What helped most, and what will I keep for next time?

For reflection and practice, not diagnosis. Bring it to your next session if you’d like to talk it through.