SLA Leah Hunter, MAMFT Brain Library · Guide
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Time is slippery.

Brain Library · Time Blindness

Time blindness is trouble sensing how much time has passed or is left. Many ADHD (and some autistic) people describe time as just two zones, “now” and “not now.” It’s a difference in how the brain tracks time, not carelessness.

Pairs with: Making Time Visible

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Same hours, two experiences

Clock time

steady, even

Felt time

squished & stretched

Boring task drags

Ten minutes of paperwork can feel like an hour.

Fun task vanishes

“Wait, it’s dark?”

Far deadline = “not now”

Until it suddenly becomes “NOW.”

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Why it happens

Working memory

Holding “how long has it been?” in mind while doing something else can be hard, so the thread slips.

Dopamine & interest

Interest seems to drive attention. Low-interest time can stretch; high-interest time can disappear.

Hyperfocus

Deep focus can shut out the clock, hunger and the world. A strength, with a cost.

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Make time visible

Move time out of your head and into the room.

Visual timer

See time shrink, don’t just hear it end

Analog clock in view

Where your eyes land while you work

“Leave by” times

Plan the leaving, not just the arriving

Alarms with labels

“Shoes on now,” not just a beep

Time-blocking

Give tasks a place on the day’s map

15-minute buffers

Breathing room between things

Pair with SOLA’s Making Time Visible worksheet.

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Go deeper.

Use these alone, in session, or with someone you trust. There are no wrong answers, only clues about how your brain meets time.

When does time vanish for me? When does it drag?
What does “not now” look like in my life? Which tasks live there?
What have I been told about being “late” or “lazy”? What do I know now instead?
When I hyperfocus, what gets lost: meals, messages, sleep? What could gently bring me back?
Which transition is hardest for me: starting, stopping, or leaving the house?
Which tool from the front could make time visible in one room I use every day?
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Try this week

Guess how long one daily task takes, then time it. What did you notice?

For reflection and practice, not diagnosis. Bring it to your next session if you’d like to talk it through.

Sources and credits. SOLA · Neurodivergent Education & Community