SLA Leah Hunter, MAMFT Brain Library · Guide
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When two brains share one head.

Brain Library · AuDHD

“AuDHD” is a community term for being both autistic and ADHD. The traits can blend together, hide each other, or pull you in opposite directions, and every person’s mix is their own.

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Two circles, one you

Traits many AuDHD people describe

Two overlapping circles: an Autism side, an ADHD side, and a shared middle marked “Both”.

Autism side
  • Routine and sameness feel safe
  • Deep, lasting interests
  • Direct, literal communication
Both
  • Hyperfocus
  • Sensory overload
  • Tricky executive function
ADHD side
  • Novelty and newness light you up
  • Attention that jumps to what’s interesting
  • Fast, impulsive action

Traits can blend, or mask each other. Your mix can shift day to day.

02

The tug-of-war

Pulled both ways, sometimes in the same hour.

Four sliders, each with a marker somewhere in the middle:

  • Needs routine ↔ Craves novelty
  • Needs quiet ↔ Seeks stimulation
  • Deep focus ↔ Scattered attention
  • Plans everything ↔ Acts on impulse

Neither end is wrong. The middle marker moves, and that’s okay.

03

What helps

Routine with variety

Steady frame, changing contents.

Novelty inside structure

A new playlist or spot for a familiar job.

Sensory planning

Pack for quiet and for input.

Body doubling

Work alongside someone, in person or online.

Self-compassion

When needs clash, you’re not failing.

04

Map your own mix.

Use these questions on your own, in session, or with someone you trust. Skip any that don’t fit; your answers can change over time.

Which traits feel most “autism side” for you, and which feel most “ADHD side”?
Where do you feel the biggest tug-of-war? What does it look like on a real day?
Has one side ever hidden the other, so a need went unnoticed by you or others?
What’s one routine you could loosen, or one novelty you could build in?
When your sensory needs clash (quiet vs. input), what helps you choose in the moment?
What would you say to yourself on a day when both sides want different things?
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Try this week

Add one small bit of novelty to a routine you already have. How did it feel?

For reflection and practice, not diagnosis. Bring it to your next session if you’d like to talk it through.