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Listening inward.

Interoception

A neurodivergent guide to the messages your body sends — and gentle ways to get better at hearing them.

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What is interoception?

The sense of what’s happening inside your body.

It’s how you know you’re hungry, thirsty, tired, too warm or anxious. Many ND people describe these signals as working a little differently — and that’s a difference, not a failure.

Too quiet

You don’t notice hunger until you’re shaky.

Too loud

A heartbeat or itch can feel overwhelming.

Hard to decode

You feel something but can’t name it.

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Where signals show up

Body signal map. Everyone’s map is a little different. These are common starting points, not rules.

Head · Tiredness

Heavy eyes, foggy thoughts, words slipping away.

Mouth & throat · Thirst

Dry mouth, a dull headache, feeling flat or sluggish.

Chest · Anxiety

Racing heart, tight chest, quick shallow breaths. Sometimes it’s excitement instead.

Stomach · Hunger

Growling or emptiness — or shakiness and a short fuse that shows up first.

Bladder · Needing the bathroom

Pressure low in the belly — or just restlessness and wriggling you can’t explain.

Skin & muscles · Temperature

Shivers, goosebumps, sweaty palms, tense shoulders, a flushed face.

Worth knowing:

one feeling can have many causes. That’s why checking in helps.

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When a feeling is hard to read

Signal decoder. I notice… / it might be… / try…

Snappy, short fuse, can’t focus
  • It might be: Hunger, thirst, or sensory overload
  • Try: A snack and water first, then a quieter spot
Headache, dull and heavy
  • It might be: Thirst, screen strain, or tiredness
  • Try: A full glass of water and ten minutes away from screens
Fidgety, can’t sit still
  • It might be: Needing the bathroom, or needing to move
  • Try: A bathroom trip, then a short walk or stretch
Fast heartbeat, fluttery tummy
  • It might be: Anxiety, excitement, or too much caffeine
  • Try: Slow breaths out; ask “what just changed?”
Flat, blank, nothing registers
  • It might be: Deep tiredness or a shutdown on the way
  • Try: Rest and cut input — meet the basics on a schedule
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Don’t wait for the signal

Body check-in routine. If signals are quiet, a clock can do the noticing for you.

1. Set a reminder

An alarm or watch buzz every few hours.

2. Scan head to toe

Pause for a breath at each part of the map.

3. Name one sensation

“Tight shoulders.” “Dry mouth.” Plain words are fine.

4. Name one need

Use the decoder above for a best guess.

5. Meet it

Drink, eat, rest, move, or layer up — now, not later.

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Today’s check-in log

Your turn. A word, a tick, or a question mark all count.

Hungry?Thirsty?Tired?Feeling?
Morning
Midday
Evening

For education and community support, not diagnosis. For personal guidance, reach out to a neurodivergent-affirming professional.

Sources and credits. SOLA · Community Resource · Interoception